Mars or Venus?


Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus

The Battle of the Sexes: an unending battle it is! Really???

Read this short story first…
Why Women are Special?
Husband & Wife were watching TV when Wife said, “I’m tired, and it’s getting late. I think I’ll go to bed.”She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day’s lunches.Rinsed out the bowls, took vegetable out of the freezer for morning, checked the cereal box levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and
bowls on the table and started the coffee pot for brewing the next morning.
She then ironed a shirt and secured a loose button.She picked up the game pieces left onthe table, put the phone back on the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer.She emptied a waste basket and hung up a towel to dry.She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom.She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher and pulled a text book out from hiding under the chair.She signed a birthday card for a friend, Addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the grocery store.She put both near her bag. Then she washed her face, put on her moisturizer, brushed her teeth…..
Husband called out,
“I thought you were going to bed.”
“I’m on my way,” she said.
She put some water into the dog’s dish, then made sure the doors were locked.She looked in on each of the kids and turned out their bedside lamps and radios, and had a brief conversation with one kid who is still up doing homework.In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next day.Said her prayers, and visualized the accomplishment of her goals. about that time,Husband turned off the TV and announced to no one in particular.
“I’m going to bed.”
And he did… without another thought.Anything Extraordinary Here? 🙂 🙂 🙂
(Story Courtesy: Someone who shared it on FaceBook)


Now, check out this small ad film…you’ll love it! I bet.

Kudos to the Ad agency that made this Ad. Through a very simple 90 second long video they have shown the kind of help and support a husband (a man) lends to his wife (a woman), unconsciously though. Leave aside everything, just watch the visuals and tell me frankly, haven’t you gone through any of this at least once in your lifetime? I am sure you would definitely have. Well, I have. 🙂 🙂 🙂

Now, here’s something to make this conversation light.
Husband and wife are like two tyres of a vehicle – if one punctures, the vehicle can’t move further.
Moral: Always keep a spare tyre.
Please do not take the moral seriously. Any such intent will be at your own risk. 😀 😀 😀
From all this, what is it that you derive?
Do you believe there’s anything special about either of the sexes?
Or do you feel either of them is superior or inferior to the other?
I don’t think so. Each one of us is doing our bit. The problem starts when one starts taking things for granted and the other starts blowing his/her own trumpet. I personally do not believe there’s any house that can run without both of them: a man and a woman.
Here are few ingredients that make a relationship successful.
The first and the most important ingredient, a tumbler full of LOVE
enough and more TIME and SPACE for each other
infinite DREAMS and HOPES all the time
a tap that never runs out of PATIENCE
1 Serving Spoon ACCEPTANCE
2 Tablespoons COMMUNICATION, crisp and clear
 Teaspoons full of SHARING, CARING and EXPRESSING
and last but not least,
a pinch of APPRECIATION here and there (Trust me, it works just like Salt in any lip smacking delicacy) 😉 😉 😉
There’s also one ingredient that has to be thrown out of the house even before getting into the relationship…
…that’s EGO.
Ego is just like Dust in the Eyes.
Without clearing the dust, we can’t see anything clearly.
So clear the Ego and see the World.
If you ensure this much, you sure are on your way to make it successful.
And mark my words, it’s possible with the equal involvement and efforts from the two of you.
Like the Weighing Scale or Balance, the effort will be more with one of you at some point in time and will shift to the other at some other point in time. Effectively, the accountability lies with both of you.
Enough of counselling for today…Huh! 🙂 🙂 🙂
Good night & Sleep tight! 😀 😀 😀


The Sacred Knot

Unconditional it is…


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